It takes, on average, over a year for someone to recognise themselves as a carer. During that time, they may already be coordinating appointments, managing medication, and providing emotional support. Sleep often reduces. Working hours shift. Yet many do not see themselves as eligible for support because they are “just helping” someone they love.
Carers rarely describe themselves as being in crisis. More often, they talk about “just getting on with it” because they feel they have to. Caring expands gradually, and the mental load settles in quietly. It shapes concentration and resilience. It can narrow social worlds and intensify isolation long before anyone names it as stress or burnout.
By the time I undertook my Churchill Fellowship, I had spent two and a half years working in this field. I understood the policy landscape and the data on mental health, stress, and loneliness. I also saw how often support arrives only when someone is already overwhelmed. My Fellowship explored a different question: how can environments, and the systems around them, protect mental health before crisis point is reached?
In Sweden, I spent time at a Gröna Rehab site, a nature‑based rehabilitation setting embedded within the public health system and developed to support healthcare workers experiencing stress and burnout. Time, space, and contact with nature were treated as legitimate, evidence‑informed supports for mental health.
Although Gröna Rehab was created for healthcare workers, the pressures it addresses felt familiar – sustained responsibility, emotional labour, limited opportunity for rest. The parallels with unpaid caring were clear.